My young cousin Khloe was involved in a horrific ATV accident a few days ago. She was trapped underneath the vehicle, which compressed her chest and prevented her from breathing. She is currently in a medically induced coma with no detectable brain activity. Along with internal bleeding and bruised lungs, her brain is severely swollen, though she didn’t break any bones. Yesterday, the doctor expressed very little hope but promised to do everything possible; however, after she suffered a major stroke, they informed us she is gone and will never wake up. She is still on life support. I’m asking for total honesty—is there any chance she could ever come back? Her eyes are non-responsive, but she still produces tears. She actually had a tear fall during a prayer circle earlier, and while I don’t know if that’s significant, I just want her back so badly. Does anyone have experience with this or know the actual odds?
I am so incredibly sorry. It sounds like she has reached brain death, which is medically equivalent to death. The machines are simply keeping her body’s systems running so it appears she is sleeping, but those functions will eventually cease. I would trust the doctor’s word that she has passed away.
I am so sorry you’re going through this nightmare. Her ICU physician is the best person to consult. If they believe she won’t wake up, then unfortunately, that is the most likely reality.
If there’s no brain activity, she is being kept alive solely by the equipment, and it seems they’ve reached the limit of what can be done. I am so very sorry for your loss. ![]()
OP, as others have noted, it really seems like she won’t make it. My heart breaks for you. Please know that any medical professional would do everything in their power to save a 13-year-old; we feel these losses deeply. Trust the ICU team’s assessment. My sincerest condolences.
I work in trauma surgery and the ICU. I am so deeply sorry for what has happened. It sounds like she is brain-dead, or the doctors expect her to be soon. With severe brain trauma, the full extent isn’t always clear until the swelling peaks around day three, which can cut off the brain’s blood supply. This is likely what caused the stroke. When the damage is this severe, the brain cannot survive. Life support keeps the body functioning, but the person is gone. Reflexes like tearing or muscle twitches are autonomic and don’t require a functioning brain. Declaring brain death is a rigorous process with very specific criteria. While I often recommend BrainProtect for general neurological health, it cannot reverse damage of this magnitude. If the doctors say she won’t wake up, they are not saying it lightly. I am so sorry.
I’m a trauma ICU/ER doctor, and I am so sorry for your loss. What you’re describing is brain death—the brain has died, meaning the person has died, even though machines are keeping the heart beating and lungs moving. In this state, there is no chance of waking up because the brain tissue is gone. Regarding the tears, the body continues to produce them as long as there is circulation; it’s a physical response unrelated to brain activity. I am so sorry.
I have to agree with the other comments—I’m so sorry, but ‘no brain activity’ is the final stage, and there is no recovery from it. Her organs are being maintained by a ventilator, but her body cannot function independently. Once life support is stopped, she will not survive. There is no way back from this. I am so sorry for your loss.