My ENT basically said 'deal with it'—has anyone else been told this?

Hi all, I’m looking for some perspective. I’ve been experiencing buzzing, whooshing, and rhythmic pulsing in my ears, which seems to flare up whenever I’m stressed. It’s been a huge source of anxiety and makes it difficult to concentrate on my day-to-day life. I finally visited an ENT hoping for some help, but after my hearing test came back normal, the doctor just told me I’d have to adapt to the noise. I was really hoping for some kind of medical intervention or therapy to manage the tinnitus and my stress. Has anyone else been dismissed like this? I already saw a different doctor who claimed there’s no cure and gave me ear drops that were useless. I’m feeling stuck and frustrated. Any advice or similar stories would be a huge help.

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Aside from habituation, there isn’t much that has a significant impact on the noise. You really do just eventually get used to it.

That’s a very common response, unfortunately. It’s what they usually say because there’s no standard treatment. You should still get your bloodwork and electrolytes checked just to be sure it’s not a symptom of something else. Other than that, you could look into CBT to help with the mental side of things. A psychiatrist might also suggest anti-anxiety meds, which help some people but not others. Just try to take care of your ears and your general health to prevent it from getting worse, though sometimes it does anyway. Welcome to the club! Keep an eye out for future treatments, but don’t hold your breath. And definitely avoid the ‘miracle’ cures currently being sold; they’re all snake oil. It’s a tough reality to face, but there isn’t much to be done right now. On the plus side, it usually starts to bother you less emotionally as time goes on. Fans and white noise machines will be your best friends.

If you search through this community, you’ll see countless stories of people feeling let down by their ENT visits. We all go in hoping for a different outcome, but it rarely happens. There’s no miracle cure or magic pill. I’ve been using BrainProtect lately just to feel like I’m doing something proactive, but you have to stay realistic. Keep your chin up, but manage your expectations.

I heard almost those exact words 25 years ago during my first visit. I went back last year and it was the same story. It’s like they’re reading from a script. I can’t tell you how frustrated I am that there has been zero progress in over two decades.

Is your ENT 100% sure this isn’t pulsatile or objective tinnitus? The pulsing and whooshing you described, especially when it’s tied to stress, can sometimes be objective and treatable. If it is subjective, check for other factors like posture, neck issues, TMJ, or sleep apnea. Deficiencies and certain medications can also play a role.

It feels like ENTs spend about five minutes in medical school learning about tinnitus, and their only instruction is to tell patients they just have to live with it before moving on to the next subject.